Divorce as an expat in the Netherlands

Divorce is always profound. It can be one of the most emotional events in a person’s life because the future is suddenly in doubt. This is especially true if you are an expat or international living abroad, or if you are a foreign expat or international living in the Netherlands. What are the consequences of an international divorce? Will you or part of your family go home? And what are the options for divorce at all? In which country should it be done? Which laws apply? And what are the possible consequences for your finances, living arrangements and residence status?

Simmelink Attorneys and Mediators assist expats and internationals in matters of international family law and inheritance law. We work for foreign expats residing in the Netherlands and Dutch nationals living and working abroad.

Our attorneys and mediators can assist in the following matters:

  • prenuptial agreements
  • divorce
  • spousal maintenance
  • child maintenance
  • division of assets
  • custody and access
  • inheritance law

We welcome you to schedule an appointment at our office in Maarssen – Utrecht or video conferencing (via a secure connection) is also an option. If desired, we can combine physical appointments and video calls. Together, we can make a choice that best suits your situation. Our quality and personal contact is guaranteed wherever you live, in the Netherlands or abroad.

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Which law applies to my divorce?

Suppose you are getting divorced and international aspects, such as a residence or domicile abroad or a partner with foreign nationality, come into play. In that case, it is important to first investigate in which country or countries you can divorce. For example, does the Dutch court have jurisdiction or do you need to be at the court abroad? It is also essential to find out which law applies, not only to divorce, but also to other topics such as custody and access, spousal and child support and the division of assets, real estate and pensions.

In some cases, the Dutch court has jurisdiction to handle the divorce but you are obliged to bring the agreements about children or alimony to a foreign court. It is also possible that both Dutch law and the law of another country apply. You can read more about it here.

Expat & divorce in the Netherlands: a step-by-step plan

To bring transparency to the international divorce process, we have provided a clear step-by-step plan.

Introduction meeting

In the first non-binding introductory meeting, we delve into your situation and discuss the following topics:

  • What kind of relationship do you have? Did you live together unmarried? Were you married with the community of property or with a prenuptial agreement?
  • How do you want to divorce? Do you prefer your own lawyer or a joint lawyer or mediator?
  • For foreign expats living in the Netherlands: how long have you been here?
  • Where do you want to live after the divorce?
  • Do you have minor children? And where will they live?
  • Are you an entrepreneur or an employee?
  • What are your assets and debts?

Which court has jurisdiction and which law applies?

Next, we determine which court or courts have jurisdiction to handle the various parts of the divorce and which law applies. And which law applies.

We cannot assist you if the Dutch court does not have jurisdiction or if you choose to litigate abroad. However, we are happy to support you as an independent advisor.

Begin the mediation or divorce proceedings

If the Dutch court is competent, we start the mediation or – if you each have your own lawyer – divorce proceedings. We accompany you during the legal settlement of your divorce.


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Would you like to make an appointment or find out more?

An initial intake interview and evaluation of your case is always free of charge. We will discuss your situation, the different ways how we can help and assist you and give an indication of the costs. We are transparent and promise no surprises afterwards.