In brief
A divorce lawyer is an attorney who guides you through the legal settlement of a divorce or registered partnership, from legal proceedings and settlement agreements to arrangements regarding children, alimony, and assets.
- In the event of a divorce, the divorce lawyer handles the legal proceedings at the Central Netherlands District Court, the settlement agreement, and arrangements regarding children, alimony, and assets.
- Divorcing with children requires a parenting plan with agreements on custody, residency, and child support.
- Utrecht has a large expat community; in international situations, questions regarding jurisdiction and applicable law play an independent role alongside other separation issues.
- In complex financial situations such as a business, a director-major shareholder (DGA) structure, or real estate, additional analysis is required.
- In many cases, consultation or mediation is possible before legal proceedings become necessary.
What does a divorce lawyer in Utrecht do?
A divorce requires a legal analysis of your situation, clear procedural steps, and sustainable agreements. The divorce lawyer advises you on your legal position, manages the legal proceedings at the Central Netherlands District Court, and considers the long-term consequences, including those related to assets, children, and income.
Simmelink Lawyers is based in Maarssen and assists clients from the Utrecht region with divorce and complex family law issues.
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Which court has jurisdiction in an international separation in Utrecht?
Utrecht has an international university, large international companies, and a diverse population. In cases of separation where one of the parties has a foreign nationality or works abroad, questions arise regarding which court has jurisdiction and which law applies to the division of assets or the parenting plan. Depending on the circumstances, the Dutch court may have jurisdiction, even if one of the parties lives abroad.
This always requires an individual assessment. The situation of the parties, their places of residence, and any treaties determine which law is applicable.
More about international family law and jurisdictional issues. During ongoing legal proceedings, a second opinion can sometimes be valuable.
What does a divorce lawyer arrange when children are involved?
If there are minor children, a parenting plan is mandatory. This document sets out agreements on custody, the division of care tasks, residency, and child support. The lawyer guides you in drafting a parenting plan that is legally sound and aligns with the family’s practical situation.
In many cases, parents can reach agreements together, sometimes with the support of a mediator. The lawyer legally reviews the agreements made and considers what can be revised in the event of changed circumstances.
More about divorcing with children and the parenting plan, and about child support and how the amount is calculated.
How are assets divided during a separation in Utrecht?
In a divorce, the joint assets must be divided. What qualifies for division depends on the prenuptial agreement or the statutory community of property. In the Utrecht region, cases frequently involve private businesses, stock portfolios, or multiple properties.
Depending on the circumstances, several routes are possible for the settlement of assets. The lawyer analyzes the situation and helps devise a division that is legally sustainable.
More about division of assets during separation, including the home, business, and pension division.
Consultation, mediation, or proceedings
Not every separation leads to a lawsuit. In many cases, mediation during separation is a good route, especially if parties are willing to reach agreements together. The lawyer helps you assess which approach suits your situation and guides you through the entire process.
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Practical examples
Separation involving a stock portfolio and real estate
In a case in the Utrecht region, the assets included a stock portfolio and a second home purchased during the marriage, in addition to the family home. The central question was which part of the assets fell under the community of property and how the valuation should take place at the time of the separation. By carefully analyzing the financial position, a legally sound basis could be established for further negotiations.
International separation involving an expat with children
An expat in Utrecht had a partner of a different nationality who was now living abroad. As a result, the question of jurisdiction was not straightforward: which court had jurisdiction, which law applied to the parenting plan, and how could the arrangements regarding the children be made enforceable in both countries? By conducting a timely legal analysis of the situation, it was possible to determine which legal proceedings were most efficient and what the risks of the various routes were.
Parenting plan in a dispute over custody
In one case, the central question was whether joint custody after the separation was still in the best interests of the children. The parties fundamentally disagreed on the implementation of the care arrangement and daily decisions. By identifying the relevant legal frameworks and mapping out the factors that the court typically weighs, a realistic picture of the possible outcomes could be provided. This enabled the client to make an informed choice about the route to follow.
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Our Attorneys at Law
The Simmelink Lawyers team specializes in family law, International family law, and inheritance law.
The lawyers combine legal expertise with international experience.
Clients are guided by one dedicated lawyer who oversees the entire process and communicates discreetly.
A specialized lawyer is essential in complex financial situations or international components.
Our goal: legally correct, enforceable agreements that bring peace and clarity.

Carla Simmelink – Family Law Attorney, International Family Law and Inheritance Law
Family Law Attorney, International Family Law and Inheritance Law

Valerie Lingg – Family Law Attorney, International Family Law
Family Law Attorney, International Family Law

Eva Zaunbrecher-Boschloo – Family Law Attorney, International Family Law
Lawyer at Law (International) Family Law
Clients are guided by a dedicated lawyer who oversees the entire file and communicates discreetly.
Frequently Asked Questions
Simmelink Lawyers is based in Maarssen, right in the Utrecht region. Clients from Utrecht are assisted at the Central Netherlands District Court. An initial consultation can take place at the office or digitally.
Divorces in the Utrecht region are handled by the Central Netherlands District Court. The lawyer files the petition and manages the legal proceedings.
A divorce lawyer advises you on your legal position and manages the legal proceedings. In many cases, this includes drafting a settlement agreement, filing a petition, and making arrangements regarding children, alimony, and assets.
The duration depends on the chosen route. A separation by mutual agreement can be completed within a few months. If the court makes a decision, the legal proceedings take longer. This is general information; every situation is different.
Yes. A second opinion is possible during ongoing legal proceedings or if you wish to have the chosen strategy reviewed. This can provide valuable insights into possible routes and risks.
At the office or remotely
Simmelink Lawyers is based in Maarssen and assists clients from Utrecht and the region at the office or entirely remotely. For those who cannot or do not wish to come to the office, consultations are possible via secure video calling. You can read more about how remote guidance works on the remote separation guidance page.
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