In brief
In a divorce involving an owner-occupied home, it must be determined who retains the property, how the value is established, and what happens to the mortgage.
- The value of the home is determined via a current appraisal by an independent appraiser.
- The reference date, usually the date the divorce petition is filed, determines which value is used for the division.
- Both partners remain jointly and severally liable for the mortgage until the bank agrees to a change in the name on the title.
- Home equity or residual debt is divided according to the matrimonial property regime or the agreements in the divorce settlement agreement.
- Agreements regarding the home are recorded in writing in a settlement agreement or a notarial deed.
How is the value of the home determined?
The property value forms the basis for any division.
An independent appraisal is essential, especially if one of you wishes to remain in the home.
The appraisal provides the current market value; the mortgage and any debts are subtracted from that amount to calculate the home equity.
Sometimes parties use the WOZ value (tax valuation), but this often deviates from the market.
In many cases, the court considers a recent appraisal as decisive evidence.
Options for an owner-occupied home during divorce
1. One of you remains in the home
The remaining partner buys out the other.
The buyout amount is usually half of the home equity.
The bank must agree to the change and assesses whether the income is sufficient for the new mortgage.
2. The home is sold
The home is sold through a real estate agent.
The mortgage is paid off and the home equity is shared; any residual debt is borne jointly, unless agreed otherwise.
3. Temporary joint ownership
Sometimes ex-partners agree to retain the home for the time being, for example, until children complete their schooling.
Clear agreements regarding housing costs and maintenance are then important to prevent later conflicts.
Step-by-step plan for an owner-occupied home in a divorce
1. Inventory
Note the ownership ratio, outstanding mortgage, and any savings-linked mortgages or loans.
2. Reference date & appraisal
Determine the valuation date and have the home independently appraised.
3. Choice: sale or buyout
Discuss scenarios: who will stay, what are the financial possibilities, and which bank conditions apply?
4. Formalizing
Record the agreements in a divorce settlement agreement or deed of division via the notary.
5. Execution
Arrange the transfer, deregistration at the Land Registry, adjustment of the mortgage, and settlement of home equity.
Scenarios
Consultation
Many couples arrange the home through mutual consultation, guided by their lawyers. This often prevents legal proceedings.
Mediation
A mediator helps in finding agreements regarding the home, costs, and the moment of sale. The outcome is recorded in a settlement agreement.
Legal proceedings
If consultation is unsuccessful, the court can determine who remains in the home or whether a sale must take place.
International
Is the home located in the Netherlands but one of you lives abroad? In that case, the Dutch court is usually competent and Dutch law applies (Brussels II-ter).
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Practical examples
1. Buyout with refinancing
A client was able to buy out the ex-partner thanks to a new mortgage. The notary recorded this in a deed of division; the bank released the departing partner from liability.
2. Sale with residual debt
In a declining housing market, parties sold the home with residual debt. The court ruled that both bore 50% of the debt.
3. Temporary joint ownership
In a case involving young children, the parents agreed that the home would remain undivided for three years. The costs were divided proportionally until a sale was more favorable.
Our Attorneys at Law
At Simmelink Lawyers, you work with lawyers specialized in family law, international family law, and inheritance law. We work intensively together on solutions that are legally sound and do personal justice to your situation.

Carla Simmelink – Family Law Attorney, International Family Law and Inheritance Law
Family Law Attorney, International Family Law and Inheritance Law

Valerie Lingg – Family Law Attorney, International Family Law
Family Law Attorney, International Family Law

Eva Zaunbrecher-Boschloo – Family Law Attorney, International Family Law
Lawyer at Law (International) Family Law
Clients are guided by a dedicated lawyer who oversees the entire file and communicates discreetly.
Frequently Asked Questions
In many cases, you decide this together. If you cannot reach an agreement, the court can take income, children, and housing needs into account.
Yes, if you wish to remain in the home and the other party transfers their share of ownership. The amount of the buyout depends on the home equity.
Without the bank’s permission, you both remain liable for the mortgage. Sometimes sale or refinancing is the only solution.
The home equity is usually shared according to the matrimonial property regime. This may be different in the case of a prenuptial agreement.
If consultation or mediation is unsuccessful, the court can order a sale or determine who remains in the home for the time being.




