What is a First Name Change?
With a first name change, you request the court to change your official first name or the first name of your child. Think of:
- a first name that no longer suits you;
- a first name that evokes unwanted associations, for example after threat or stalking;
- a first name that causes practical problems when emigrating or abroad;
- a first name that does not match your gender identity;
- a name change of a child, for example after a complicated divorce.
The judge assesses whether there is a compelling reason and whether the change is in your interest – or that of your child. A clear, well-motivated petition is therefore essential.
First Name Change in Specific Situations
In practice, we notice that clients often search for a specific situation, instead of the general concept of first name change. That is why we have set up separate pages for common reasons.
Changing a First Name for a Child (Minor)
When is a child’s name change possible, how does the judge assess the child’s interest, and what is the procedure for joint custody?
→ Changing first names for children
First Name Change Due to Gender Identity / Transition
A first name that matches your gender identity is essential for many clients. We guide both national and international processes, often in combination with other family law procedures.
→ First name change for gender identity / transition
First Name Change after Detention
Ex-detainees who want to rebuild their lives sometimes get stuck in daily life because of their name. Applying for a name change can help to distance yourself from the past – provided it is legally well-founded.
→ First name change after detention
First Name Change in Case of Cultural or Religious Conversion
Sometimes a name no longer fits your religious beliefs or cultural identity. A different first name may then be more appropriate – especially if it has been used in practice for a longer period of time.
→ First name change in case of religious conversion
First Name Change in Case of Threat or Stalking
In case of serious threat or stalking, a first name change can be part of a broader security strategy. Together with you and – if necessary – involved authorities, we will look at what is responsible.
→ First name change in case of threat or stalking
First Name Change from Abroad (Expats)
Do you live abroad and want to change your first name? That is possible, even if you cannot travel to the Netherlands in person. If you have a Dutch birth certificate, we can apply for your first name change entirely remotely at the Dutch court. We guide international clients completely online with video calling and ensure that all documents – apostille, legalization and registration – are correctly prepared.
Do you not have a Dutch birth certificate? Then you must first convert the foreign birth certificate yourself at the municipality of The Hague. It takes up to 13 months before the municipality takes up your request. You will then receive a message that you must send the documents. Are all documents in? Then it takes 6 weeks before the municipality has converted your deed. After that, you can contact us to start the procedure for changing your first name.
🔗 Read all about first name change from abroad here
For whom is our Guidance in Name Change Suitable?
Our approach is particularly suitable for:
- Adults who want to change their first name due to identity, safety, religion or practical problems;
- Parents who want to change the first name of their child, for example in the event of a loyalty conflict, an unsafe situation or an incorrect registration;
- Expats and internationally oriented clients who have to deal with different first names in several countries;
- Ex-detainees or clients with a burdened past who want to make a new start;
- People who have to deal with stalking, threat or domestic violence, where a first name change is part of a broader safety plan.
We always look at your complete situation – family law, international and, where necessary, also criminal or security aspects – so that your request is not separate from the rest of your life.
Based on Real Cases
At Simmelink Lawyers, we assist clients with various requests for first name change – from legal corrections to changes due to personal, social, cultural or safety reasons.
Our practical examples show how careful substantiation and a clear legal strategy lead to a successful change.
- First name change due to connection with parent
A child and parent wanted to reflect their mutual bond in the name — or let go of it. - First name change due to background or belief
Our client chose a name that better matched personal or cultural identity; the court found the request convincing. - First name change due to emigration
Upon moving abroad, the name proved difficult to pronounce or confusing; the judge approved the change. - Correcting spelling error in first name
An error in the birth certificate caused confusion; with proof of the correct spelling, the first name was corrected. - First name change due to gender identity or transition
Our client had been using a name that matched their gender identity for a long time; the judge honored this carefully motivated request. - First name change due to bullying
A minor was bullied for a long time because of the first name; the court found that a change contributed to safety and well-being. - First name change due to absent parent
A child bore the name of a parent who was completely out of the picture; the judge saw the change as appropriate and in the child’s best interest. - First name change due to distancing from parent or breaking family contact
Due to the permanent breaking of family contact, the first name no longer matched the identity; the request was granted. - First name change due to naturalization
During naturalization, the old first name led to spelling and recognition problems; the judge assigned a practical and internationally suitable name. - First name change due to negative or loaded meaning
Our client experienced structural discomfort because the first name had acquired a loaded meaning; the new name provided peace and clarity. - Common name does not match official first name
The nickname had been used in all contexts for years; the judge made this the official first name based on actual use. - First name change due to stalking or threats
Due to ongoing threats, the official first name was directly findable; the court recognized the safety interest and approved the change. - First name change due to religious conversion
Due to a lasting religious conversion, our client had been using a new name that better matched their belief. - First name change for a new start after detention
We have had several clients who wanted to reshape their lives after detention. The problem is that the original name is still associated with the criminal past and caused problems with work and social contacts.
With statements from aid workers, employers and probation, we substantiated that applying for a name change was essential for a real second chance. The court agreed and granted the new first name.
Each story illustrates how personal reasons – emotional, cultural, or practical – can be translated into a legally convincing request.
Why Simmelink Lawyers when Changing your First Name?
- At Simmelink Lawyers, we combine in-depth knowledge of name law with years of experience in family law, international family law and inheritance law.
- Specialized name law practice
We structurally handle requests for first name changes, both simple and very complex cases. - Pioneer in x-status and gender-related requests
Our office has been involved in groundbreaking procedures regarding the so-called x-status. We take that experience with us in cases where identity, gender and registration come together. - International expertise
For Expats and clients with ties to multiple countries, we not only look at the Dutch registration, but also at the consequences abroad. - Strategic, calm guidance
A first name change often touches on personal themes. We provide peace, overview and a clear step-by-step plan, so that you feel supported throughout the entire procedure. - Clear communication about costs and feasibility
You know what to expect in advance. No surprises afterwards, but concrete agreements about price, duration and chance of success.
Who are our Attorneys and Mediators
You work with experienced attorneys, specialized in family law, international family law, and inheritance law. We communicate clearly, respond quickly, and keep you continuously informed.

Carla Simmelink – Family Law Attorney, International Family Law and Inheritance Law
Family Law Attorney, International Family Law and Inheritance Law

Valerie Lingg – Family Law Attorney, International Family Law
Family Law Attorney, International Family Law

Eva Zaunbrecher-Boschloo – Family Law Attorney, International Family Law
Lawyer at Law (International) Family Law
“Our lawyers are approachable, responsive and constantly keep you informed about the progress of your case.”
Mr. Carla Simmelink, lawyer






